I mean, I would argue that there is no bigger choice in our life than who we choose to marry yet most of us are taught virtually no skills on how to get there. They pretty much send us out into the dating world with little or no knowledge of how to attract, treat, or date potential partners. I just wish there was a way to teach our kids relationship skills too, since it is so important to the overall happiness of our lives. And yes, the tools are out there. Programs like my Conscious Dating Coaching, is just one of the many relationship building platforms that can help us learn these skills as adults. Throw in the fact that so many children have grown up in homes with parents who are unhappily married, and you have very few parents who are showing their kids what a quality relationship looks like. Just take the alarming statistic that if you are abused by your parents, you are more likely to end up in an abusive relationship. This one stat alone shows the significant power our parents have on our dating choices. She struggled seeing the light again when it came to dating and falling in love.
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